Getting dressed easier requires a well stocked closet made up of basics, which would mix and match with almost everything, patterns, and a few show stoppers.
Black and White Tanks will go with any look. Buy cheap ones and replace as needed.
Dark Wash Jeans with no more than 2% lycra to keep their shape and show off  curves.
Khaki’s with a flat front. Please NO pleats or front crease.
Black, Brown, and Grey slacks that are not too narrow at the ankle.
Classic Tweed Pant in black or brown.
Simple Knits in Cotton or Wool for layering in basic and fashion colors.
Crisp White Button Down fitted cotton top to tuck in or leave out.
Cardigans in basic and fashion colors, longer in style, that hits the hip.
Classic Black Suit that fits properly. Spend a little more, it’s worth it.
A Black Dress in a seasonal fabric in a long sleeve or sleeveless style.
Jeweled Tone Silk Blouse and a bold print blouse keeping colors subtle in larger prints.
Camisoles,  simple, lacey, or embellished for layering or low cut items.
Black Turtle Neck or a mock neck in a thin knit like cashmere, warm and less bulky.
Fitted Shorter Jackets in a solid, patterned, and a tweed.
Straight Line Skirt in black, an a-line in a print, and a denim skirt that’s not too long.
Sporty Shorter Denim Jacket will work well over a sleeveless dress or over all black.
A Few Signature Pieces that will not be forgotten and will be highly complimented.

It’s easy to re-train the brain. Get rid of old habits and embrace new ones.
1. The first thing is to look in the mirror every morning and find something you like about yourself. It can be as simple as liking the color of your blouse, the shade of lipstick or admiring your skin.You deserve to be complimented everyday. Start  by giving yourself one, every single day. You will begin to feel more confident and others will take notice.
2. Next, make a promise to yourself  that you will not say one bad word about your looks for an entire day. Not one. Try it as a challenge and see if you can do it. It’s not that easy, but try it and when you get the hang of it go for 2 days and so on. Come on – I dare you. I know you can do it. Soon you will do it automatically and effortlessly.
3. Smile and say “Thank- you”, instead of “No I don’t”, when you receive a compliment, no matter how you feel. Don’t explain or complain about how you look. Embrace and accept the compliment. They obviously see something they admire. Let them enjoy giving.
4.  Now, your turn to give back. Be sure to compliment any women you admire in her dress, attitude, or look.This will make her feel good about herself regardless of how she might feel that moment. Watch her light up.You will feel fabulous too.
5. Get out of your comfort zone and try something new today. A new lipstick, a fun color, a bold accessory, a stylish haircut, or updated frames, will add a fresh new look and evoke an exciting feeling. Do it for your self, not for anyone else. And remember to smile, a lot.Feel beautiful everyday. What you put out is what you get back.

Cleavage
If they’re too close to your face they are infinitely distracting.
Not only are the men looking but so are the women and they are not as impressed.
Pair low cut blouses or sweaters with lacy camisoles, fitted tank tops or tee shirts. There’s a fine line between provocative and pornographic.
Belly
Stretch for the ceiling. If your belly shows, don’t wear it. Small or large, it’s tacky.
Legs
Legs are the most powerful and safest way to suggest sexy without over doing it.
The most flattering and appropriate length is somewhere between an inch or two above the knee. If you go shorter, wear a lower heel.
Feet
A sexy pair of high heels make your legs look long and thin. Shoes are a great way to play with color and style. As we approach spring,  be sure to have your toes polished (chipped polish looks unkempt) and rid yourself of callused heels.
The sexiest thing you can wear to the office is your brain.
There’s nothing sexier than a confident women who obviously takes care of her self. Charm and beauty gets noticed. A classy smart women radiates strength, gets recognized, and is remembered.

To look updated when wearing jeans, choose a dark wash denim with a boot cut.
Don’t be afraid to tuck in your top and add a belt and blazer for a curvy look.
For a natural slimmer looking waistline, look for waistlines that are cut above the natural waist in tops and dresses.
We all want to be comfortable but even comfortable casual shoes can be stylish. Opt not to wear sneakers with everything you wear. Ballet slippers are a fun alternative.
Retire that matronly looking compartment handbag and don a colorful or textured, fun, trendy style that expresses your personality.
Remind yourself to wear a pretty dress. Nothing is more feminine that a women in a dress. Show off a bit of skin and add softness with a delicate cardigan or wrap.
Bring back the figure of your youth by using visual tricks to produce long, slenderizing lines. Slim-cut jeans with a boot cut bottom, topped by an empire top, finished off with high heel boots are a good start.
Give the hands of time a helping hand by using the right undergarments to lift, tuck and hold your way back into your high school figure.
Get a stylish haircut you can manage. Wash away any gray hair, don’t surrender to it. After all, it’s not how you looked years ago, why start now.

Giving your man a sense of style will help boost his confidence a create a newness for both of you.
Discuss his style and let him know you’d like to be his personal stylist but don’t force it on him, he’s not your doll. If he’s not ready for the challenge, try again in a few months. Most men are creatures of habit so it may take time. If he is ready, start by assessing his wardrobe.
Get rid of anything that doesn’t fit, is torn, faded or stained, or is out of style. Discuss what image he would like to portray, power, comfort, style, or a professional look.  Study mens magazines like GQ for fashion trends.
Start from the inside out, redoing his wardrobe slowly by replacing his underwear, undershirts, socks, and handkerchiefs.
Buy  a new sports jacket and one new well fitting suit, two crisp white shirts, two  print ties, and two mock turtle necks, one in black.
Be sure the suit is tailored well and the pants are not too long or too narrow.
Shoes, belts, and socks (sporty and dressy) should all be good quality.
Although well worn jeans and favorite tees from college will be difficult for him to let go of, replace them in his favorite colors a well as his sneakers (not all white) with fresh new ones. Let him keep his logo caps for week end wear (a small compromise). Update his hair style and glasses. Compliment him often and make him feel special.

If you feel you lost your flair, want to change your style or need to boost your originality, go through magazines and tear out pictures of women whose looks you admire.
Find a look you like, whether in the magazines or someone you see, that reflects an image you would like to emulate. Look at their clothing, make up and hair style.
Modify that style with the silhouettes that flatter your figure.
Discuss the hair style with your hair dresser to see if it suits the texture of your hair, your features. and the shape of your face. Even if the cut is not quite right for you, at least they will know what your are shooting for.
For a polished look, begin with a great fitting black pant or dark wash jean. Pair them with a brightly colored blazer if you tend to dress in drab tones, .
Coats, handbags and shoes in bright colors make a big impact. They are the first expression of your personality.