Archive for February 17th, 2010

Beauty Fixes for Women in Their Fabulous Forties

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Gravity begins to take it’s toll as you approach your fabulous forties.
Go for a look of sophistication rather than trendy.

Be professionally fitted for a new bra. if you think you wear the same size as you did when you were in your thirties, you will be surprised to discover your new size. The correct fit and style of your bra will do wonders for your outfits.

Add jackets and pieces that give you shape if you are thick in the middle.
Don’t cover up with baggy clothes. Find styles that flatter your figure.

Stand up collars work wonders for wrinkled necks. Stay away from turtle necks.
They may cover but also push the skin up toward the chin. Very unflattering.

Focus on your legs. They don’t age for a long time. But please, no more mini skirts. Keep the length just above or below the knee. Sexy shoes will draw attention to your legs.

The worst thing you can do is to dress to young, it will only make you look older.
Lose the red lipstick and the liner under your eyes. I know it’s not easy but try and get used to seeing yourself that way. I assure you it looks better and you won’t look tired.

Play up your shoulders with an off the shoulder or wide neck top, a fabulous necklace, or a great pair of earrings. Not too much cleavage. You want to always look classy, not trashy.

Have fun with color and don’t wear so much black. Soft colors bring light to the face.
The colors that looked well on you in your twenties probably don’t work for you any more. Try something new.

If your hair is thinning or your color is starting to fade, make an appointment with a stylist for a consultation to a get a fresh new sophisticated style. Get rid of any grey.

Find someone you admire and emulate their look. Begin to create your own signature style and don’t worry so much about being trendy.

Shop in stores that cater to stylish women. Liz Claiborne, Giorgio Armani, Chico’s,
St. John and Escada offer great selections and you can always find them on sale.

The Perfect Swimsuit

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

If you are going south for the winter or preparing for summer, finding the perfect swimsuit can be difficult. Don’t be afraid to spend a little extra money when you finally find a fabulous suit that is comfortable, compliments your figure and is guaranteed to turn heads. Inexpensive suits don’t fit well or last more than one season. Shop locally as resorts prices can be astronomical and you want to spend your leisure time having fun.

Take your measurements before you shop and use those numbers to find a correct fitting suit not the manufacturers sizes as every swimsuit is cut differently. Remember that you are looking for a style that helps balance your figure and shows your best assets while hiding troubled areas. Luckily two piece swimsuits are now sold as separates so you can create a custom fit.

If you are a swimmer opt for a one piece suit. There are many styles that offer control panels and show less tummy in a stretch fabric that don’t ride up the backside. Draping around the waist and hips also helps to conceal. The tiny designer bikinis are meant for so few and by all means wear them if and while you still can you lucky girl.

If you are smaller on top look for a top with some padding, an under-wire, or a demi-bra style which creates a great bust line. Adjustable straps around the back and shoulders are important so you can tighten it rather than have it altered. Ruffled details as well as bandeau tops work best.

If you are bigger on top you will need a suit with structure like an under wire, a shelf bra, or one with soft foam cups which will give you extra support. Halter tops provide support and look sexy. Tank or straight cut bust styles helps avoid the “spillage ” effect and looks sporty. Avoid strapless and spaghetti straps and go for wide straps which are more comfortable and don’t dig into your shoulders.

If you don’t have many curves, create them by selecting styles with a belted waist band, surplice, or draped details that come in at the waist. Solid suits with a floral waist band, embellishment, curvy patterns, solid bottoms with a print or stripe top, will all flatter your figure. Bikinis with ruffles, rings, or bows on the hips will add shape. Stay away from horizontal strips or solid colors.

If you are a plus size woman, show some skin in the right places to look and feel sexy. Sheer cover ups work well but don’t wear too much fabric or go too skimpy which tend to make you look bigger. Deep V necks are great and I love the suits with the dark panels on the sides. Avoid neon or white colored suits.

If you have a full bottom avoid frilly, skimpy cuts, boy shorts or ruffles and a lot of details on the hips. Keep detailing on top to create more volume.

Balance is always the key word no matter what size. Finding the right swimsuit  and a luscious cover up will be worth your search when it makes you look and feel glamorous.

Prom Dress Shopping Doesn’t Have to Be Stressful

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

To give you an idea of what the trend is today, follow the stars. Typically the manufacturers are showing what the celebrities are strutting on the red carpet or the award ceremonies, following the stylish stars as well as the couture industry.

The most important factor is to keep your figure and personal style in mind. Although certain styles will work for everyone, your body plays a crucial role in choosing the perfect dress that flatters your figure. Accent your favorite body part and flaunt your looks. Remember you can look fabulous without revealing so much. Too much of anything is no good and you want to look classy not trashy. Less is always more.
Style. A fitted dress will show off an hour glass figure. A cocktail dress, a few inches above or below the knee, will feature your great legs. A ball gown skirt will camouflage your back side, large or small. Always create balance so your top and bottom appear to be in proportion.
If you tend to be on the sophisticated side, look for a simple black column dress or an elegant cocktail length with simple accessories to highlight your face. If preppy is more you, look for a bold black and white using a pop of color in your shoes and handbag. If you like looking different or showy, don’t go over board. You may want to stand out but be sure it’s in a  good way. If you are going for short or a high split stay away from cleavage. Think modest, it’s a school prom not a Vegas show.
Accessories. A very intricate style calls for minimal accessories. Keep your shoes and handbag simple. To make a bold statement play up the eyes or lips to add drama and couple it with sheer make up. Be sure you are able to walk in the shoes you select. If you are not used to wearing heels choose a lower heel or practice walking in a higher heel. You want to be able to walk with poise and confidence. That’s the secret to looking beautiful.
Color is another important factor. Pale colors will wash out ivory skin but the deeper shades of pink, peach, or lilac are great for light completions. Usually black works for any skin tone. Jewel tones work best for darker skin tones. If you want to be daring with color, keep the style simple.
Determine your budget. More expensive is not necessarily the answer to looking great. You don’t have to break the bank for a fabulous style nor do you have to sacrifice style for price. Give yourself time to shop around and use some creativity. Shopping on line will give you an idea of what’s out there before you hit the stores. Be sure to wear a good bra, shape wear, if necessary, and a pair of heels when going shopping. If the dress is going to require a lot of alterations it’s probably not cut for you. You don’t want to pay more for alterations than the cost of the dress. You’re likely to never wear it again. Save the alteration money for when you want to cut it down.
Once you decide on a color, inform your date so you don’t clash in color and style. For example, you don’t want him in a contemporary look while you are wearing a Victorian style. You want to compliment each other so guide him a bit especially if fashion is not one of his strengths. Be sure to compliment him.
Enjoy yourself. Don’t stress out too much. When shopping, just bring one person you trust with a sense of style. Too many opinions will confuse you and it is rare that someone wants you to look better than they do.
Decide which styles will flatter your figure, decide on your budget, give yourself enough time to shop, and more importantly have fun. You want it to be a memorable event and a great way to bond with your mom, sisters or a good friend.