There’s no excuse for not looking good with everything that is available in today’s market. I don’t agree with some who say, “Either you have it or you don’t”. It doesn’t matter when you begin, how old you are, or what size you wear.
Some people have a sense of style and a great fashion flair but there’s no reason you can’t learn or get help if you don’t have a clue. It requires knowledge, effort, and the willingness to make change. Getting out of your comfort zone in essential to moving in the right direction, even if you take baby steps. Don’t try to find the time to look great, make the time to get the help you need to look and feel your very best, every day. You can do it if you make up your mind to stop making excuses. You will be surprised how small changes will go a long way. It will be worth your time and effort. Love yourself and stop procrastinating. Start right now. You’ll be glad you did. Be everything you want to be and more.
Archive for May 18th, 2010
Is Style Really Something You Can Learn or Either You Have it or You Don’t?
Tuesday, May 18th, 2010
What to Wear in Your Thirty’s
Tuesday, May 18th, 2010
Dressing your age means making the most of your body style and not wearing things that make you look like you are trying too hard. You don’t want to dress like you’re in your twenties. That’s just as bad is dressing too frumpy. By the time you reach your thirties you should begin getting a sense of who you are and what your individual style is. There is no reason to stop following fashion trends. Just be sure they flatter your changing body style.
For the thirty-something, slightly structured dresses with simple embellishments close to the neck or at the hemline look great. If the neckline is too low or you are self conscious about your arms, layering woks well and looks trendy.
Wear skinny jeans with a tunic top or a loose fitting top. Don’t wear faded or ripped jeans as they are too young of a look. You want to look fashionable yet classy. Try something other than jeans, like white pants paired with a great black top and fun accessories. Think streamline.
Wear shorter and more fitted jackets with a great fitting pair of dark wash jeans.
Stick with classic shapes.
Show off a bit of cleavage or prance in a shorter skirt but not both at the same time. It looks trashy. One shoulder tops and full sleeves look chic with a pencil skirt.
Get a trendy sophisticated haircut (especially if you haven’t cut your hair in years) and udate frames or sunglasses.
And please, no belly shirts, pig tails, or shirts that say “Sexy”, “Kitten”, or “Victoria Secret”.
Dressing your age means making the most of your body style and not wearing things that make you look like you are trying too hard. You don’t want to dress like you’re in your twenties. That’s just as bad is dressing too frumpy. By the time you reach your thirties you should begin getting a sense of who you are and what your individual style is. There is no reason to stop following fashion trends. Just be sure they flatter your changing body style.
For the thirty-something, slightly structured dresses with simple embellishments close to the neck or at the hemline look great. If the neckline is too low or you are self conscious about your arms, layering woks well and looks trendy.
Wear skinny jeans with a tunic top or a loose fitting top. Don’t wear faded or ripped jeans as they are too young of a look. You want to look fashionable yet classy. Try something other than jeans, like white pants paired with a great black top and fun accessories. Think streamline.
Wear shorter and more fitted jackets with a great fitting pair of dark wash jeans.
Stick with classic shapes.
Show off a bit of cleavage or prance in a shorter skirt but not both at the same time. It looks trashy. One shoulder tops and full sleeves look chic with a pencil skirt.
Get a trendy sophisticated haircut (especially if you haven’t cut your hair in years) and udate frames or sunglasses.
And please, no belly shirts, pig tails, or shirts that say “Sexy”, “Kitten”, or “Victoria Secret”.
The Top 10 Things Men Do That Turn Women Off
Tuesday, May 18th, 2010
Men, we love you and there are lots of things you do that turn us on but here are the top ten things that turn us off.
1 Wear socks with sandals. It’s looks really nerdy and extremely unattractive especially flip flops with socks.
2 Hand gestures are very rude, especially the v gesture. They are all highly offensive to women and a guaranteed turn off to any woman.
3 No sagging pants. We don’t think it’s sexy or cool to show your underwear or a peeping crack. It’s tasteless. Wear a belt.
4 Fast cars are cool but don’t trick them out too much. It looks stupid unless it’s a show car on a professional track.
5 Tweezing your eye brows, even if you are body builder, it looks too feminine.
Not that uni-brows are attractive, but sculptured brows are too much, especially if they look better that ours.
6 Too may tattoos are a turn off unless your woman adorns many herself.
If we want to see all that art work, we’ll go to a gallery. Most women prefer to see a clean body which shows off muscles rather well.
7 Age gracefully. Don’t act or dress like you are twenty if you are not.
Wearing your baseball cap backwards when you are over 30 makes you look immature. Too much plastic surgery screams how insecure you feel. Wrinkles and graceful aging shows wisdom and confidence and there’s nothing sexier than a man with confidence.
8 Don’t dye your hair black, especially shoe polish black. Black looks fake and is too hard on the face. Try dark brown or let some gray come through. It looks debonair and sophisticated. You are better off going to color stylist than using cheap box hair dye and don’t forget a great updated haircut.
9 Chewing tobacco is gross. It smells and tastes bad. Woman won’t kiss a man who chews tobacco. It yellows your teeth and that lump on the side of your mouth looks weird.
10 Don’t talk about your ex or complain about her. If you are trashing your ex, we’ll know you’re gonna trash us as well. It’s classless. We also don’t want to hear about your bitter divorce, especially when we first meet or in the beginning of the relationship. We just don’t want to hear it. If we are out, it’s because we want to have fun not be your therapist or your mother.
Men, we love you and there are lots of things you do that turn us on but here are the top ten things that turn us off.
1 Wear socks with sandals. It’s looks really nerdy and extremely unattractive especially flip flops with socks.
2 Hand gestures are very rude, especially the v gesture. They are all highly offensive to women and a guaranteed turn off to any woman.
3 No sagging pants. We don’t think it’s sexy or cool to show your underwear or a peeping crack. It’s tasteless. Wear a belt.
4 Fast cars are cool but don’t trick them out too much. It looks stupid unless it’s a show car on a professional track.
5 Tweezing your eye brows, even if you are body builder, it looks too feminine.
Not that uni-brows are attractive, but sculptured brows are too much, especially if they look better that ours.
6 Too may tattoos are a turn off unless your woman adorns many herself.
If we want to see all that art work, we’ll go to a gallery. Most women prefer to see a clean body which shows off muscles rather well.
7 Age gracefully. Don’t act or dress like you are twenty if you are not.
Wearing your baseball cap backwards when you are over 30 makes you look immature. Too much plastic surgery screams how insecure you feel. Wrinkles and graceful aging shows wisdom and confidence and there’s nothing sexier than a man with confidence.
8 Don’t dye your hair black, especially shoe polish black. Black looks fake and is too hard on the face. Try dark brown or let some gray come through. It looks debonair and sophisticated. You are better off going to color stylist than using cheap box hair dye and don’t forget a great updated haircut.
9 Chewing tobacco is gross. It smells and tastes bad. Woman won’t kiss a man who chews tobacco. It yellows your teeth and that lump on the side of your mouth looks weird.
10 Don’t talk about your ex or complain about her. If you are trashing your ex, we’ll know you’re gonna trash us as well. It’s classless. We also don’t want to hear about your bitter divorce, especially when we first meet or in the beginning of the relationship. We just don’t want to hear it. If we are out, it’s because we want to have fun not be your therapist or your mother.
