Archive for February 3rd, 2011

For All the Single Ladies

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

People, especially men, assume who you are by the way you dress and treat you accordingly. The first rule is choosing the appropriate outfit for the occasion. Find out where you are going and get a feel for how other women would usually dress in that environment.  Don’t copy them, just get an idea of what you might see, then choose clothing that reveals your true or desired persona.

Don’t show too much skin. Less is always more. There’s a fine line between classy and trashy. You will look sexier in a classy outfit rather than a trashy one and you will be sending the right message. Your goal is to attract men but not encourage a sexual invitation. Men are driven by their hormones and only need to see a little bare skin to feel motivated. Revealing too much will attract a lot of men, but the wrong men. Remember you are just looking to attract the right man. You only want to allure and arouse his curiosity or interest. Men are hunters and are wired to enjoy challenges. Provide that to get the results you desire.

The colors you wear are important as well. Wearing your best colors will dramatically enhance how you look and how others relate to you. If you are trying to attract a man always dress feminine and never wear deep red or burgundy.  Strong colors will not make you look unapproachable and will scare him away.  Shades of pink are very inviting to a man and work for many completions. Wearing a little red in your accessories is okay. It looks sexy but not intimidating. Stay away from yellow and certain greens that change your skin tone or can tend to make you appear sallow.

Showing your bare legs, neck and ears will signal your availability but won’t invite a sexual attack. High-heeled shoes are very sexy but make sure you can walk properly as you don’t want to appear awkward or uncomfortable.

Be yourself and don’t put on airs. You want to attract someone who likes you for who you really are. Don’t try to be what you feel they want you to be. Just be the fabulous you that you are.

Men get a lot of satisfaction from just looking at a woman. They love when a woman smiles, shows her feminine curves, and appears confident. In your first encounter, don’t discuss your “baggage”, complain about your ex, or put yourself down. It’s a big turn off. Images of flipping your hair, wiggling your butt, or bouncing boobs will leave a lasting impression for a man… well at least for several days. Be selective. Good choices will produce long successful, happy relationships. Never settle. It’s better to be alone, than wish you were.

10 Fashion Trends You’ll Love for Spring 2011

Thursday, February 3rd, 2011

According to fashion week, there are ten fashion trends that we are going to love this Spring. As styles tend to repeat themselves about every 20 years,  you can probably look in your closet to find some of these 70′s inspired looks.

1. THE RETURN OF THE WIDE LEG PANT
For some of us the wide leg pant is a must to create balance and proportion and should never go out out style. It’s more important to wear what works for your body style rather than what’s in style. You can always add the accessories or color of the season to update your look.

If you tend to have your volume at the base, the wider leg will be more flattering than last seasons skinny jeans. If you tend to have fullness at your shoulder and bust line, this pant will do wonders in creating the illusion of an hour glass figure. The key is to balance the width of the pant with the right top and heels.

What shoes to Wear.  Wear a heel unless you are very tall, then you can get away with flats. Oxfords, mary janes and shoe boots are the newest looks. Wide trousers look great when the tip of the shoe peeps out.

2. THE RE-RETURN OF THE HIGH-WAIST PANT
This is a great pant to help tuck you in and eliminate the very unattractive “muffin top”.  It will also help to accent a small waist. Tuck your shirt into high-rise pants to elongate your legs and give the appearance of a longer waist line. Be careful with pockets. Side pockets will add volume to a fuller hips.

3. MILITARY LOOK
Although fashion repeats itself, the designers always add a new twist to give you a reason to buy new. This Spring’s military look is more futuristic with straps and harnesses for a more abstract look.  Adding white will keep it light and delicate looking.

4. ORANGE ZEST
A fresh slice of citrus. Bold orange, rich mango or pumpkin, will take the place of the corals this Spring. Always best worn with white but if you can’t wear white on the bottom, khaki, brown or navy can be an alternative to black. Black and orange remind me too much of Halloween.

5. LONGER SKIRTS AND DRESSES
Easily worn by all sizes and ages, longer skirts and dresses are paving the runways. Unless you are wearing one that skims the floor, choose a length that flatters you. Think curvy. Find the point between your ankle and your mid calf that best shows off your legs. If the skirt is too long, it will tend to make skinny ankles look even thinner and wider ankles look wider. If you are petite, lengths worn too long will tend to make you look shorter.

6. PAJAMA PANT
Please don’t mistake this pant for something you would wear to bed, like the ones with the little clouds on them. Think slouchy, comfortable, unconstructed, but still glamorous. Pair them with a more fitted or shorter top and add volume and style by using chunky accessories.

7. HALTER NECK LINES
Halter necks with necklace-like cinching are feminine and fabulous. Picture yourself on vacation in the south of Spain or the Caribbean. You’ll see this look on short dresses but it looks sensational on longer relaxed dresses. Sheer soft fabrics look awesome with this neckline. Great for reducing a fuller shoulder line.

8. NEUTRALS
No stranger to warm summer days, neutrals simplify palettes and give a soft clean look. Structured styles in sand, camel, ivory with a hint of black look classic with an added twist. Great with gold sandals even for day time.

9. CHARTREUSE
A pale green or yellow like the liqueur made from brandy which was discovered in France. This color is not very flattering on many but does look great if you are tan. You don’t need a lot of it but just a hint introduced as a color blend or an accessory, which will look chic.

10. DOLMAN SLEEVES
The classic dolman sleeve is back. This sleeve with a large armhole and tight cuff is seen on fuller, boxier, shorter cut tops. These fuller silhouettes help balance and offset a fuller bottom or can create a long leggy look with a narrower pant. But this style will not flatter a fuller shoulder or bust line. Also, if you have rounded shoulders, add a slight shoulder pad for better balance. From surf hoodies to evening wear, dolman sleeves are comfortable and stylish.