People, especially men, assume who you are by the way you dress and treat you accordingly. The first rule is choosing the appropriate outfit for the occasion. Find out where you are going and get a feel for how other women would usually dress in that environment. Don’t copy them, just get an idea of what you might see, then choose clothing that reveals your true or desired persona.
Don’t show too much skin. Less is always more. There’s a fine line between classy and trashy. You will look sexier in a classy outfit rather than a trashy one and you will be sending the right message. Your goal is to attract men but not encourage a sexual invitation. Men are driven by their hormones and only need to see a little bare skin to feel motivated. Revealing too much will attract a lot of men, but the wrong men. Remember you are just looking to attract the right man. You only want to allure and arouse his curiosity or interest. Men are hunters and are wired to enjoy challenges. Provide that to get the results you desire.
The colors you wear are important as well. Wearing your best colors will dramatically enhance how you look and how others relate to you. If you are trying to attract a man always dress feminine and never wear deep red or burgundy. Strong colors will not make you look unapproachable and will scare him away. Shades of pink are very inviting to a man and work for many completions. Wearing a little red in your accessories is okay. It looks sexy but not intimidating. Stay away from yellow and certain greens that change your skin tone or can tend to make you appear sallow.
Showing your bare legs, neck and ears will signal your availability but won’t invite a sexual attack. High-heeled shoes are very sexy but make sure you can walk properly as you don’t want to appear awkward or uncomfortable.
Be yourself and don’t put on airs. You want to attract someone who likes you for who you really are. Don’t try to be what you feel they want you to be. Just be the fabulous you that you are.
Men get a lot of satisfaction from just looking at a woman. They love when a woman smiles, shows her feminine curves, and appears confident. In your first encounter, don’t discuss your “baggage”, complain about your ex, or put yourself down. It’s a big turn off. Images of flipping your hair, wiggling your butt, or bouncing boobs will leave a lasting impression for a man… well at least for several days. Be selective. Good choices will produce long successful, happy relationships. Never settle. It’s better to be alone, than wish you were.




