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New Years Resolution

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

Take Time for Yourself
So we all know what we should be doing to take better care of our selves; exercise, eat right, drink lots of water, eliminate bad habits and reduce stress – the key elements for feeling good and looking great.  It’s about living healthier and aging gracefully. It’s about living in the healthiest way we possibly can.

Another important element in living healthy is feeling good about our selves in the now and exuding our own natural beauty. It’s about doing the best we can to look our best and gain more self confidence. No one can give you that and no one can ever take it away. It’s about accepting who we are and loving who we have become.
So how do we motivate ourselves to take better care of our precious gift of life? How do we love ourselves and continue to practice good habits religiously in our daily lives until it becomes a part of who we are and what we do. Once we decide to change our thoughts and our routine, then we will realize that it really doesn’t require a lot of effort to live a happy and healthy life.

All it requires is the right attitude. It’s all in our attitude and our personal perception or our self -image. A good  practice is to be kind to yourself and understand how special you are. Take care of yourself in the same way you would your own child. You have to take care of yourself first before you can take care of others.
You can’t change who you are but you can change the way you feel about yourself or the way you look. Having a positive internal dialogue and feeling like you look good on the outside is what keeps you healthy on the inside. We are solely in charge of our own thoughts. Why not take time for your self and make the effort to look good.  The rewards will be priceless.
It frustrates me to hear people say that they don’t have time to put into the way they look. It doesn’t take a lot of time. It takes caring about yourself. It’s like a woman who has remnants of nail polish on her fingernails.  It takes less than a minute to remove the rest of the polish. At least if you don’t have the time to reapply, it will look clean and it will show that you care about how you look. Oh, and that goes for your toenails as well.

And guys, it’s really a turn off for women to see a man that doesn’t take care of himself. If you desperately need a haircut or a shave, make the time. You don’t look cool with stubbles when you are over 25. You just look scruffy and unkempt. Take the time you need to show the world you care about yourself. It will do wonders in attracting women who also take care of themselves. Both men and women love a person who looks and smells great. How you present your self is what you will attract.
Don’t try and find the time, take five or ten minutes a day for yourself and make an effort that will show you care about yourself. It will carry you through the entire day. The positive thoughts you have about yourself will attract and surround you with positive people as well as positive situations. It’s all about the law of attraction. And it works. What you put out is what you will get back. If you believe you look good, everyone around you will think the same way because you will own it because you feel it and it will show. Even through adversity it will help to strengthen you and give you more confidence.

Stop making excuses and start right now. Take control of being in charge of your own destiny. You can do it. Let me help motivate you in trying new techniques to looking your best and feeling good every single day.
Drinking lots of water makes your skin look better and doesn’t require strenuous effort, only continuous effort. Dressing well is the same. It is a continuous process of making the effort to look and feel your best.
With everything that is available to us in hair care, skin care, and fashion, there is no reason we shouldn’t look our best. There are many resources available to learn about what will enhance your look and what to wear to flatter your figure  .
Remember, the best thing that always fits and makes you look your best is your smile :) and compliments keep you smiling. Start by saying thank-you when someone compliments you on how good you look, instead of saying “No I don’t”. Get into the habit of being good to yourself and complimenting yourself everyday. You will soon feel more confident, have serenity and hope within yourself and your positive self-image will radiate your beauty. Then others around you will compliment you as well. And remember to compliment others as well and help them feel good too.

Let the world seen how beautiful you are on the inside by presenting yourself in a way that shows you care. Being kind and respecting others begins with how you treat yourself.
Begin the New Year right. Love yourself more and give yourself the time you need and deserve. Not only will you enjoy yourself more but others around you will also enjoy your company more as well.
Make that your  2010 New Years resolution. It will be a resolution worth working toward.

I wish you all a happy and healthy holiday season as well as joy and peace in the world.

Enjoy your loved ones. Be good to yourself. Love yourself and have a happy New Year.
Let 2010 be your year and make EVERY DAY  a special occasion.