Posts Tagged ‘Style’

Is Style Really Something You Can Learn or Either You Have it or You Don’t?

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

There’s no excuse for not looking good with everything that is available in today’s market. I don’t agree with some who say, “Either you have it or you don’t”. It doesn’t matter when you begin, how old you are, or what size you wear.
Some people have a sense of style and a great fashion flair but there’s no reason you can’t learn or get help if you don’t have a clue. It requires knowledge, effort, and the willingness to make change. Getting out of your comfort zone in essential to moving in the right direction, even if you take baby steps. Don’t try to find the time to look great, make the time to get the help you need to look and feel your very best, every day. You can do it if you make up your mind to stop making excuses. You will be surprised how small changes will go a long way. It will be worth your time and effort. Love yourself and stop procrastinating. Start right now. You’ll be glad you did. Be everything you want to be and more.

What to Wear in Your Thirty’s

Tuesday, May 18th, 2010

Dressing your age means making the most of your body style and not wearing things that make you look like you are trying too hard. You don’t want to dress like you’re in your twenties. That’s just as bad is dressing too frumpy. By the time you reach your thirties you should begin getting a sense of who you are and what your individual style is. There is no reason to stop following fashion trends. Just be sure they flatter your changing body style.

For the thirty-something, slightly structured dresses with simple embellishments close to the neck or at the hemline look great. If the neckline is too low or you are self conscious about your arms, layering woks well and looks trendy.

Wear skinny jeans with a tunic top or a loose fitting top. Don’t wear faded or ripped jeans as they are too young of a look. You want to look fashionable yet classy. Try something other than jeans, like white pants paired with a great black top and fun accessories. Think streamline.

Wear shorter and more fitted jackets with a great fitting pair of dark wash jeans.
Stick with classic shapes.

Show off a bit of cleavage or prance in a shorter skirt but not both at the same time. It looks trashy. One shoulder tops and full sleeves look chic with a pencil skirt.

Get a trendy sophisticated haircut (especially if you haven’t cut your hair in years) and udate frames or sunglasses.

And please, no belly shirts, pig tails, or shirts that say “Sexy”, “Kitten”, or “Victoria Secret”.

Easy Tips on Dressing for Success

Saturday, May 8th, 2010

There’s a lot of competition out there today and that’s why it is important to look professional while projecting confidence. Confidence plays an important role in succeeding. Looking the part  makes a lasting impression. Maybe it’s unjust to judge a book by its cover, but we all do.

Here  are are few easy tips to help you look professional and feel more confident.

Generally it is a good idea to wear something simple that is neat and clean.
Be sure it doesn’t need pressing. Don’t sacrifice style for comfort but add your own flair. Don’t wear clothing that is too big or too small.

Keep accessories in proportion to your body size. Don’t use more than 3 accessories or less than one.

Develop your own personal style but don’t over do it. I know a woman who wears a different brooch everyday. People remember her because she branded herself with an identifying mark. I also know a gentleman who wears different colored eye glasses each day to match what he is wearing. Don’t use tasteless identifying marks that offend or make others laugh.

Observe the way others dress in your work place and express your own signature style. Mix and match your suits tying in two colors with an accessory like a scarf, tie, or necklace. Make a statement with color combination’s.

Closed toe shoes work best. The heal shouldn’t be more than three inches high. Spikes, wedges, or flip flops, are inappropriate.

Keep your make up simple. Be as natural as possible and you will be recognized as having class and style. Don’t look like you are trying to hard. It’s usually a sign of over compensating in one area to make up what’s lacking in another.

Don’t carry an over sized hand bag even if it is in style. Have an organized med sized bag so you can find things easily.

Keep nail polish in a neutral color with no designs. They shouldn’t be excessively long or chewed down. A man’s nails should be kept sort and clean.

Don’t wear accessories that make noise like bangle bracelets or that are too big like over sized hoop earrings.

Not more that one inch of cleavage. More is too distracting.

Walk, sit, and speak with your shoulders back. Slouching makes you look insecure.

Put a smile on your face and don’t forget how terrific you are. Remind yourself every day. Find something you like about yourself and get into the habit of complimenting yourself.

Prom Dress Shopping Doesn’t Have to Be Stressful

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

To give you an idea of what the trend is today, follow the stars. Typically the manufacturers are showing what the celebrities are strutting on the red carpet or the award ceremonies, following the stylish stars as well as the couture industry.

The most important factor is to keep your figure and personal style in mind. Although certain styles will work for everyone, your body plays a crucial role in choosing the perfect dress that flatters your figure. Accent your favorite body part and flaunt your looks. Remember you can look fabulous without revealing so much. Too much of anything is no good and you want to look classy not trashy. Less is always more.
Style. A fitted dress will show off an hour glass figure. A cocktail dress, a few inches above or below the knee, will feature your great legs. A ball gown skirt will camouflage your back side, large or small. Always create balance so your top and bottom appear to be in proportion.
If you tend to be on the sophisticated side, look for a simple black column dress or an elegant cocktail length with simple accessories to highlight your face. If preppy is more you, look for a bold black and white using a pop of color in your shoes and handbag. If you like looking different or showy, don’t go over board. You may want to stand out but be sure it’s in a  good way. If you are going for short or a high split stay away from cleavage. Think modest, it’s a school prom not a Vegas show.
Accessories. A very intricate style calls for minimal accessories. Keep your shoes and handbag simple. To make a bold statement play up the eyes or lips to add drama and couple it with sheer make up. Be sure you are able to walk in the shoes you select. If you are not used to wearing heels choose a lower heel or practice walking in a higher heel. You want to be able to walk with poise and confidence. That’s the secret to looking beautiful.
Color is another important factor. Pale colors will wash out ivory skin but the deeper shades of pink, peach, or lilac are great for light completions. Usually black works for any skin tone. Jewel tones work best for darker skin tones. If you want to be daring with color, keep the style simple.
Determine your budget. More expensive is not necessarily the answer to looking great. You don’t have to break the bank for a fabulous style nor do you have to sacrifice style for price. Give yourself time to shop around and use some creativity. Shopping on line will give you an idea of what’s out there before you hit the stores. Be sure to wear a good bra, shape wear, if necessary, and a pair of heels when going shopping. If the dress is going to require a lot of alterations it’s probably not cut for you. You don’t want to pay more for alterations than the cost of the dress. You’re likely to never wear it again. Save the alteration money for when you want to cut it down.
Once you decide on a color, inform your date so you don’t clash in color and style. For example, you don’t want him in a contemporary look while you are wearing a Victorian style. You want to compliment each other so guide him a bit especially if fashion is not one of his strengths. Be sure to compliment him.
Enjoy yourself. Don’t stress out too much. When shopping, just bring one person you trust with a sense of style. Too many opinions will confuse you and it is rare that someone wants you to look better than they do.
Decide which styles will flatter your figure, decide on your budget, give yourself enough time to shop, and more importantly have fun. You want it to be a memorable event and a great way to bond with your mom, sisters or a good friend.

Develop Your Own Personal Style

Friday, October 2nd, 2009

It can be easy to get stuck in a wardrobe rut and only see your wardrobe in one dimension.  If you find yourself wearing the same outfits over and over again and you don’t know any other way to mix it up I can help you create a whole new look to your wardrobe with minimal purchases.
If your wardrobe is getting tired or has become a bit outdated, refresh it with a few important pieces to update or perk it up.
Assess your current style and decide on a look you like or are comfortable in, such as traditional, casual, preppy, a chic look, or to just have more fun with fashion. Decide on what you would like to accomplish in expressing your image.
Imitate a look and make it your own by adding your own flair that reflects your personality. Choose what you are most comfortable in changing like your hair, clothing, make up, accessories, etc. Use your signature style to accent your positive features and draw attention away from troubled areas.
What ever you choose, be sure it feels like you and fits into your personality and your lifestyle. You can be stylish, be comfortable, and still be yourself.
Surely, the most important reason to look your best is for yourself. It’s no secret that when you look good on the outside, you more often feel good on the inside. When you take control of your own appearance, you begin to feel more confident and in charge of your life. Imagine what a positive impact this could have on your career, your social life, and yes, even your personal relationships!